5 ways on how to change yourself

In this world, everyone wants to be a little better, to be happy, to be at peace. But really, is the world a happy place if I don't say it is not a happy place, the place of happiness will be given to us after death if we can do the right thing here, Allah Almighty has sent us to this world to do that. In this temporary life of the world, we don't know how many people we have fallen in love with, how many people we have fallen in love with without our knowledge and they are the ones who give us the most pain.


Most of you who are reading my articles have either suffered from someone or have searched online for relief from someone's pain. I will share with you today some of my words that if you know, you can beware of many things that you do every day. If your suffering is increasing then let's start without delay ;

 Easy Ways to change yourself

In today's age, all children want to change themselves for one reason, one of the reasons is that either they have fallen in love or the person they love doesn't care about them. I don't know if I have caught your main problem, if so then this article is very useful for you.

Because I myself love someone and I am also a victim of emotional turmoil like you, we who love someone want to change ourselves for one reason so that the person on the opposite side of us, that is, the person who was our favorite, will one day regret who I lost.

Rules Number 1 Give importance to yourself

Ways to change yourself ; If you are in a relationship, you must value yourself as well as the person you love. Many of us do things that cause us to be neglected later on.

In fact, the main bad person is ourselves, that is, we give priority to that person so much that they think that there is no other thing in the world that is cheaper than them. Well, have you ever seen that the prices of the things in the market are high. No, not at all, if you have a thing that is not available anywhere in the market, then you can sell that thing at a high price.

That is, if you value yourself, you are available to him all the time, he will think you cheap. Your friend is calling. The more careless you get.

And for those who are single brothers and sisters, I will say one thing, love is a very terrible thing, try not to give it as much as possible. Because these guys are in a relationship to make a wife from the heart, those guys become very cheap to the girl on the opposite side, and those guys who want to leave after eating, the price of the girls on the opposite side is very high.


Because they don't give any importance to these girls and hang up when they call, they are busy because the boy's purpose is to spend time with her, he doesn't love you and although it's hard, it's true that true love in today's age has no price. The more you rule, the worse you will be towards that girl.

This is the reality, so I am saying to boys, be careful, brother, there is that one thing before, your wife will listen to you, girlfriend will not listen to you, no matter how much you arrange your house, no matter how much you take care of it, but not you, I hope you understand the importance of yourself by now. No more problems .

Focus on number two careers

Ways to change yourself ; This article of mine is mostly applicable to boys because we boys who are all of a sudden fall in love with someone and slowly start loving him and start thinking of him as our world and leave the world and only think about him all day long ;

  • Does he ever play ?
  • Did he ever sleep ?
  • Did he ever wake up ?
  • When will he take a shower ?
  • When will he call me ?
  • When will you message ?
  • When will you lovingly say that sir is eating ?

Due to some stupid thoughts like this, our whole life starts at 12 o'clock, leaving all the work and thinking about the person on the opposite side, our life goes away and at the end of the day, do we get Babajikar's thullu Sorry, I am talking to you with a little open mind. Bro the first priority in life should be parents and then if there is anything to focus on then it should be your career. Otherwise, a girl will come into your life, but why don't you listen when she sees you around;

  • Their boyfriends are giving them lots of gifts
  • Taking you to many places
  • A very beautiful luxurious live

And you don't even take a rickshaw with your pocket completely empty, and her friend's boyfriend has a bike and her husband has a car. You may wonder why that girl would stay with you. If it had been the girls of 1971. Because the girls of that time did not have such a dirty addiction to money as the girls of this era have and to be honest, the girls of this era have nothing to say to their brothers.

They only come to play drama. When the drama of love is over, when they find someone good, they start the drama of leaving and before leaving, they say, be good, be happy, you will find someone better than me. Because even if that love was there, then there was one thing, if there is no money, there will be no brother, write down the confirmation.

Brother, if I speak Bengali, then grow up yourself first, earn money, the main thing is to earn money, brother, there will be people, if not, there won't be. I hope you don't have any problem understanding me.

Rules Number 3 Think about your own character , don't try to fix others' character

Ways to change yourself ; When we love someone we say to the opposite girl out of our love you can't do this you can't do that it will be bad if you go to this place it will be bad Mishna with that girlfriend no boy pani messa with them those two girlfriends of yours are very bad When you say these things to the girl opposite you, you mean well but it won't go down well with you.


Because you know that rented house no matter how much you see and arrange it, at the end of the day it is your mother who you know will be your married wife. You will become a villain to him. You know what that girl will think. She ended her life again. Don't do this. Don't do that.

Life is over you will think these things brother you who think for his good will never think so what he does will be bad for him leave them because if you were good to him by doing them he would have understood your value then brother would have neglected so I will change myself you If you give up on them you will find that the person opposite you is fine for two or three days and then giving up is of no use because he will move on to someone else.

In fact, there is no such thing, brother, who pretends to blame the company, if the company of the person you love is bad, then at the end of the day, you have nothing to do, your loved one will be left out of your hands and you can only guess what will be the state of his character. Apart from that, think about how you can be happy, try to keep yourself happy, try to be happy, otherwise you will be fine, brother, after depression, I said, you will go crazy on the streets.

Author's comments

Again, what else can I say, who told you to say it? Personally, I will have an opinion for those who are not in a relationship yet and are single. Don't fall for these love affairs. They will ruin your life. I don't think it should be of any importance to you. Try to take care of yourself and take care of your parents. This will make your mind good and Allah will be happy. Anyway, I'm leaving here today.

Until then, everyone stay healthy and God bless

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